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• Mercedes | 12:22PM, Aug 05, '08
  

  I asked myself the same question!
  My boyfriend has a LOT of girl friends and I know one of them actually likes him. Sometimes I think he'd rather speak to those girls than me, and I admit to him that I get jealous.
  He thinks that I'm trying to say that I don't want him to have any friends that are girls. Sure, wouldn't life be much better if he didn't?
  Ah, well, I've now realised jealousy is completely normal and things aren't so simple as that. You just gotta accept that he has other girls in his life too, but no one said they were more important than you.
  I'm trying not to feel jealous because I know he doesn't like any of them as much as he likes me. I used to doubt myself on that, but once you know that you trust them completely, you can finally get over it.
  I'm not completely over it yet, but I'm trying.
  Jealousy can hurt the other person too. It hurt my boyfriend that i thought he might like another girl and that almost destroyed our relationship. If he's your boyfriend, don't let that happen. Sounds scary but things will be fine, honest. :)

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• unique | 07:59AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  yes it is normal for you to be jealous. nevermind its okay. c'mon, he's just talking. thats normal okay.

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• Christine R | 07:59AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  Yeah, it's normal. But if he's a trustworthy fellow, try to remember that and not worry about it. On the same token, if he's not a great guy and you really have to worry about him running off with the next girl, maybe it's not jealousy. Maybe it's that little voice telling you to get rid of him.

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• lisa. | 07:59AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  he probably feels the same when you talk to other guys. you just have to keep it under control and not let it get out of hand ie dont start moaning at him and try to tell him who he can and cant speak to.

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• kenily | 07:59AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  it's normal. i was like this with my first girl friend. just relax and it'll show you care :)

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• mimi | 07:58AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  if you really have true feelings for him then it is normal for you to get jealous, i do, and i only get jealous if i have feelings, if i don't care about him i don't care who he converses with, i really can't tell you how to get over this because it's hard for me to let this feeling i have go, maybe you can learn to trust him a little bit more than you do, because it probably is just trust issues that you are dealing with.

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• Mayra758 | 07:58AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  it depends on how he talks to these girls...but its ok for you to get jealous.......just dont let it get out of hand

  p.s
  tell him how you feel about him talking to girls (if his your boyfriend) if not let him notice you!!

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• Clit_nib | 07:58AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  Oh, please... just because you 2 are together doesn't mean he can NEVER again talk to another female.

  Get over yourself.

  Edit: Well, obviously you DO have a problem with it since you're on the Internet biotching and moaning about a VERY minor thing. So, what else is there to know?

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• Mexia555 | 07:58AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  yea I know that feeling you love a person but even the little time your not with them you feel sad or angry because thier not talking to you. You want to be thier for them and do everything with them but you need to see if he likes you back just don't accept being put on the sidelines see if he likes you other than that don't worry about it

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• Boldfish | 07:58AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  its normal.. its extremely normal. you like him and you want him to be yours. i like my best friend (guy) and everytime he gives another girl more attention than me i feel jealous.

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• ARrocket | 07:57AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  yeah, it's normal, women are jealous creatures ;)

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• mooniiqa | 07:57AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  its normal, its like a little fear of loosing him or that he looks on another girl... take care, good luck!

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• Eve | 07:57AM, Jan 22, '08
  

  As most of the others say......yes that is normal.
  Horrible feeling though, isn't it?!
  Try you best not to get upset. He is not dating that
  girl. He is making conversation, why not join in, if you can.
  It hard to overcome, however you do, once you really know him and trust him.
  Honestly.

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